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I WISH I HAD…

​ I WISH I HAD PUT MORE EFFORT INTO MY ACADEMY DAYS. HOW I WISH I HAD TAKEN MY ACADEMIC CAREER MORE SERIOUSLY. Caleb, Jide, and I were close friends during our tertiary education. We shared a strong bond as best friends. Caleb had a keen interest in reading various genres of books. Notably, he had a strong passion for studying, whereas Jide and I had an aversion to studying, especially when examinations were not imminent.  I was inclined to study only a few days prior to examinations, and Jide followed a similar pattern. Instead of utilizing our study time effectively, we would often scroll through social media or engage in leisure activities, unlike Caleb, who was deeply invested in his academic pursuits.  Studying was indeed his favorite hobby during our tertiary education.  He would consistently encourage us to be diligent in our studies, but we never heeded his advice.  Despite our lack of attention to his counsel, Caleb persisted in advising us to ...

Educate others with humility.

A professional ought to educate those who are under the development of knowledge with humility and honesty, though he or she is an expert; he or she must stay meek despite the fact that he or she is an intelligent person.  The fact that someone is clever does not mean he or she should not be humble and submissive, because intelligence is a gift that can be taken away by the Giver if the person refuses to humble him or herself and instead continues to brag about his or her accomplishments. The fact that you are a professional does not imply that you should disrespect your elders.  Boasting about your professional status can unexpectedly lead to a novice-like demeanor.  Indeed, the act of boasting can inconspicuously strip away the pretenses of your boasts.  The Scriptures also emphasize in Matthew Chapter Twenty-three Verse Twelve that those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks -...

What have you achieved today?

Not only students should reflect on their daily accomplishments by asking, “What have we achieved today?”  As lifelong learners, we acquire new knowledge every day.  Each day presents an opportunity to learn something new, prompting us to ask ourselves, “What have I achieved today?”  Learning is a universal pursuit that extends beyond the student population; it is essential for everyone.  It is worth noting that we can only impart knowledge that we possess, not what we lack.  Similarly, we can only share what we have, not what we do not have.  Let us strive to dedicate ourselves to continuous learning, ensuring that we expand our existing knowledge base every day. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

Mistakes may be made when attempting something for the first time.

When you think, reflect and reassess before taking action, you will undoubtedly prevent yourself from committing any mistakes that may have future repercussions.  Nobody truly enjoys making mistakes, yet we inevitably gain valuable insights from them.  Mistakes can be minor or major; while diverse, they provide opportunities for growth. However, when you inadvertently make any, it's part of adding more knowledge because whenever you want to engage in such a thing the next time,  you'd probably know the way you're going to do it in the way that will bring good results rather than making the same mistake. People often say, “Only a fool learns from his or her own mistakes.”  While this may seem counterintuitive, rest assured, the following tips will provide guidance.  When someone commits a misconduct of which you are unaware, how can you learn from it?  How can you prevent yourself from making a similar mistake? On the other hand, when someone commits a mista...

Be cautious!

Let's exercise caution in our responses to elderly individuals.  You must be mindful of how your words are perceived by those who are older.  Sometimes, the intended meaning behind your words to elderly individuals might be misconstrued as they ponder over your response. They may assume you are mockery of them, potentially prompting them to contemplate retaliation,  unaware that they are misinterpreting the situation.  At times, it is essential to carefully consider your thoughts before reacting to individuals of advanced age.  Caution is advised. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

One good turn deserves another.

One good turn deserves another.  When people assist you in achieving your goal or in any way, acknowledge and express appreciation for their efforts, and let them know how much you value and cherish them. Always express your gratitude to your helpers. Whenever you do so, it fosters positive sentiments and delightful bliss from within.  Expressing your gratitude will consistently encourage them to provide further assistance, rather than perceiving you as unappreciative. Do not underestimate others when you have already reached the top; you ought not to deprecate others when you have attained your desires.  Instead, assist them to fulfill their objectives as well. Exercise restraint when interacting with others, regardless of their positions and circumstances.  Demonstrating kindness towards them consistently will inevitably foster a joyous and cheerful demeanor. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and c...

Be humble and acquire more knowledge, instead of boasting of the limited knowledge you possess.

Some individuals consistently seek to justify their actions, even when they are mistaken.  You don't need to argue with those correcting you.  Acknowledge your mistakes, pay attention and allow them to correct you.  By doing so, you'll acquire more new knowledge. Sometimes, as an adept that you are, you ought to position yourself as an amateur in order to acquire more knowledge.  Experts do not argue but rather make peace so that they may add to their understanding; they do not argue but instead keep silent in order to further illuminate their insights. Instead of boasting of the limited knowledge you possess, remain humble and pursue additional knowledge to ensure you are thoroughly educated on various new topics. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great mind...