Alliances of just people with gangs they aren’t meant to get close to.

Have you ever thought about the reason behind the alliances of a certain set of people with those they aren’t meant to even get close to? Oftentimes we tend to do what we ought not to do due to our experiences in the society particularly from people who are not sympathetically affected by the position we may find ourselves regardless of being open-handed to them. They utilize the advantage of being magnanimous to them to make us feel sad and depressed. They are horrifyingly wicked to the extent of showing no concern after our act of altruistic to them initially when they come to us for goodwill and hospitality. Hence, that makes them full of empathy at their first appearance.

At times, upright people join gangs they ought not to as a consequence of what they’ve gone through in the community, especially what people have done to them as a result of their kindness to them. Oftentimes you wonder why just people collaborate with gangs to do unjust things so that they could make themselves happy. However, there are reasons behind each confederation and the reasons mostly are due to their experiences; what people have done to you that made you harden your heart. As a matter of fact, certain philanthropists became misers not because they don’t want to render assistance anymore but due to what they’ve gone through as a result of their benevolences.

This set of people tend to keep their wickedness to themselves when they approach you for the first time so that you could welcome them cordially with aid. They are the set of people who make generous souls get discouraged by rendering assistance to humanity. How? For instance, you come to me for an assistance which isn’t in my capability, but based on who you are and how close we are, I fairly stand for you as a your surety - someone to hold responsible if you fail to meet your obligations, but unfortunately, you break my heart by running away from your obligations and nowhere to be found. So, how do you want me to bear the burden - the responsibility if I’m penurious at the moment the responsibility needs to be fulfilled; If I happen to be as poor as a church rat at the time the obligation needs to be met? So tell me, what could stop me from engaging in what I shouldn’t as a person who wants to keep my name safe by finding a solution to the mess you put me into?

In all fairness, engaging in a bad thing isn’t plainly good, at the same time, people don’t just rush into something they detest doing without causes. I’ve come to realize that people don’t just do that which they dislike doing without something that makes or pushes them into it. Pilfering won’t be rampant as well as ‘hold to ransom’ and others but be controlled judiciously if everyone happens to do things with honesty in all aspects mostly in this country. If we want things to keep falling in alignment as we desire, we must be trustworthy - we need to be honest with ourselves in all our endeavors. As you aspire yourself, you must be straightforward as well as this writer and every other person, too.

When people need you, they humble themselves before you, but once you raise them, they become something else. Even if you don’t have but try to stand for them as a guarantor, they will still turn you down. Life will always surprise you. Hence, learn from reflecting on every experience and forge ahead.

I’m Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper by forming deep meanings and colossal messages for great minds who think sharply and deeply.