Learn to empathize with those who assist you.

If you interact with numerous individuals today, you will inevitably encounter a diverse array of eccentric personalities.

The world is inhabited by people with distinct characteristics, and some possess a mindset that is so unpleasant,

they will stop at nothing to make life difficult for those assisting them if their demands are not met.

They fail to comprehend the silent struggles of those who help them, expecting unwavering assistance without reciprocation.

These individuals are so self-centered and egotistical that they disregard the challenges others may be facing, solely focusing on receiving benefits from them.

They do not grasp that their helpers may be experiencing difficulties that hinder their ability to provide assistance as they once did.

Consequently, if they do not receive the expected support, they become hostile, which is unjustified.

Furthermore, let us discuss those who turn against their relatives, neighbors, and others when they cease to receive assistance.

Let us share our thoughts on these individuals.

Personally,

If I were to stop helping someone at a particular point in time, it would not justify them turning against me.

They are not entitled to become my adversary simply because they are no longer receiving support from me.

I may be facing challenges that are unknown to them, which could prevent me from providing assistance during that period.

Therefore, it is essential to recognize that my inability to help does not warrant hostility.

My well-being is unknown to them, and they have no idea what I may be struggling with at that time.

In conclusion, it is crucial to understand others, regardless of one's circumstances.

Learn to empathize with those who assist you.

I’m Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

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