Monday K. Oke (MD_inks)

​ I WISH I HAD PUT MORE EFFORT INTO MY ACADEMY DAYS. HOW I WISH I HAD TAKEN MY ACADEMIC CAREER MORE SERIOUSLY. Caleb, Jide, and I were close friends during our tertiary education. We shared a strong bond as best friends. Caleb had a keen interest in reading various genres of books. Notably, he had a strong passion for studying, whereas Jide and I had an aversion to studying, especially when examinations were not imminent.  I was inclined to study only a few days prior to examinations, and Jide followed a similar pattern. Instead of utilizing our study time effectively, we would often scroll through social media or engage in leisure activities, unlike Caleb, who was deeply invested in his academic pursuits.  Studying was indeed his favorite hobby during our tertiary education.  He would consistently encourage us to be diligent in our studies, but we never heeded his advice.  Despite our lack of attention to his counsel, Caleb persisted in advising us to ...

A professional ought to educate those who are under the development of knowledge with humility and honesty, though he or she is an expert; he or she must stay meek despite the fact that he or she is an intelligent person.  The fact that someone is clever does not mean he or she should not be humble and submissive, because intelligence is a gift that can be taken away by the Giver if the person refuses to humble him or herself and instead continues to brag about his or her accomplishments. The fact that you are a professional does not imply that you should disrespect your elders.  Boasting about your professional status can unexpectedly lead to a novice-like demeanor.  Indeed, the act of boasting can inconspicuously strip away the pretenses of your boasts.  The Scriptures also emphasize in Matthew Chapter Twenty-three Verse Twelve that those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks -...

Not only students should reflect on their daily accomplishments by asking, “What have we achieved today?”  As lifelong learners, we acquire new knowledge every day.  Each day presents an opportunity to learn something new, prompting us to ask ourselves, “What have I achieved today?”  Learning is a universal pursuit that extends beyond the student population; it is essential for everyone.  It is worth noting that we can only impart knowledge that we possess, not what we lack.  Similarly, we can only share what we have, not what we do not have.  Let us strive to dedicate ourselves to continuous learning, ensuring that we expand our existing knowledge base every day. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

When you think, reflect and reassess before taking action, you will undoubtedly prevent yourself from committing any mistakes that may have future repercussions.  Nobody truly enjoys making mistakes, yet we inevitably gain valuable insights from them.  Mistakes can be minor or major; while diverse, they provide opportunities for growth. However, when you inadvertently make any, it's part of adding more knowledge because whenever you want to engage in such a thing the next time,  you'd probably know the way you're going to do it in the way that will bring good results rather than making the same mistake. People often say, “Only a fool learns from his or her own mistakes.”  While this may seem counterintuitive, rest assured, the following tips will provide guidance.  When someone commits a misconduct of which you are unaware, how can you learn from it?  How can you prevent yourself from making a similar mistake? On the other hand, when someone commits a mista...

Let's exercise caution in our responses to elderly individuals.  You must be mindful of how your words are perceived by those who are older.  Sometimes, the intended meaning behind your words to elderly individuals might be misconstrued as they ponder over your response. They may assume you are mockery of them, potentially prompting them to contemplate retaliation,  unaware that they are misinterpreting the situation.  At times, it is essential to carefully consider your thoughts before reacting to individuals of advanced age.  Caution is advised. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

One good turn deserves another.  When people assist you in achieving your goal or in any way, acknowledge and express appreciation for their efforts, and let them know how much you value and cherish them. Always express your gratitude to your helpers. Whenever you do so, it fosters positive sentiments and delightful bliss from within.  Expressing your gratitude will consistently encourage them to provide further assistance, rather than perceiving you as unappreciative. Do not underestimate others when you have already reached the top; you ought not to deprecate others when you have attained your desires.  Instead, assist them to fulfill their objectives as well. Exercise restraint when interacting with others, regardless of their positions and circumstances.  Demonstrating kindness towards them consistently will inevitably foster a joyous and cheerful demeanor. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and c...

Some individuals consistently seek to justify their actions, even when they are mistaken.  You don't need to argue with those correcting you.  Acknowledge your mistakes, pay attention and allow them to correct you.  By doing so, you'll acquire more new knowledge. Sometimes, as an adept that you are, you ought to position yourself as an amateur in order to acquire more knowledge.  Experts do not argue but rather make peace so that they may add to their understanding; they do not argue but instead keep silent in order to further illuminate their insights. Instead of boasting of the limited knowledge you possess, remain humble and pursue additional knowledge to ensure you are thoroughly educated on various new topics. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great mind...

Be understandable.  The fact that someone assists you today does not necessarily mean that the fellow will be able to help you tomorrow. It is essential to be reasonable.  Sometimes, conflicts arise among individuals simply because the person who provided assistance yesterday is unable to do so today. It may appear that the person is unwilling to help the one seeking assistance, but it is crucial to be reasonable and understanding, as one may be unaware of the current circumstances the person is facing. A man received support from an individual, but the circumstances surrounding their meeting remained unknown to others.  As a result, when another day arrived, the man sought means to reestablish contact with the individual to obtain further assistance.  Shortly thereafter, an idea occurred to him regarding how he would facilitate another meeting with the individual. He approached the gentleman with confidence.  After the formalities, the man explained his purpose...

Whenever there’s a quarrel, the reason peace reigns is due to effective management.  Whether you are the guilty party or the innocent one, it is essential to conduct yourself in a manner that fosters peace, thereby allowing peace to prevail. Conduct yourself in an intelligent and rational manner whenever a quarrel arises between you and someone else. As an esteemed individual, it is essential to conduct yourself in a manner that garners respect and admiration.  Disputes will persist when you continue to engage in arguments with your opponent.  Releasing your grip on the argument will usher in peace.  When your opponent observes that you are no longer countering their assertions, he or she will likely become calm. Do you really know what will make him or her calm?  As he or she continues with the argument and sees that you're not responding, such an individual would likely recall the quote that says  "Silence is the best reply to a fool."  However, you'...

As someone familiar with the routes (as a leader), it is your responsibility to pave the way and facilitate a smoother journey for those who follow. If you make a mistake, it does not mean you should stand by and watch others repeat the same error.  Rather, others should learn from your mistakes. Since no one has all the answers,  and you are still navigating your own path, it is essential to set a good example for those behind you, thereby earning the favour of those ahead. You are navigating a challenge and not only persevering to attain success,  but also doing so for the benefit of those looking up to you and the future generations.  Your current actions will inspire them to persist in their own pursuits until they achieve their objectives.  By refusing to quit, you will serve as an exemplary role model for those looking up to you and the forthcoming generations. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and ...

Whatever you aspire to achieve in life, it is possible to accomplish it flawlessly and excel if you refrain from allowing fear to gain the upper hand, even if the task exceeds your perceived capabilities.  How can you overcome the things that intimidate you the most when you have no desire to confront them?  How can you emerge victorious over the things that intimidate you the most when you have no intention of engaging with them?  Refrain from permitting fear to dominate your actions. There are certain factors that must be eliminated from the outset;  there are also certain elements that should be controlled from the beginning before they spiral out of control.  If you are someone who consistently strives to provide for your family, it is essential to exercise sensibility and rationality.  In a particular community, there lived a poor man alongside his neighbours.  This individual faced numerous challenges prior to his demise, enduring significant har...

Do not deviate from the right path.  Many individuals have ceased to engage in productive activities and instead squander their time on frivolous pursuits.  For some, watching videos has become an integral part of their daily routine, to the extent that a day cannot pass without this activity.  The most striking aspect is that they devote an inordinate amount of time to watching videos, rendering 24 hours insufficient for this purpose.  Be prudent.  The writer's intent is not sarcastic, as there is no inherent issue with watching videos;  however, numerous individuals have transformed this activity into a daily imperative, thereby jeopardizing their careers.  Why is it detrimental to their careers?  Because of the excessive time allocation, which is misdirected.  There are specific times when one ought to refrain from watching videos and instead focus on priorities. Have you forgotten that you possess a profound passion?  You were given ...

Some individuals usually behave in a negative manner.  Their actions are against the law. When I say "Individuals," I mean Human beings. Why do individuals engage in detrimental behaviour to manipulate and persuade others?  Why do they seek the attention of those focused on their goals?  It would be beneficial for such individuals to reassess their actions and begin making positive plans for their future. As an individual with a purpose to fulfill, regardless of the challenges life presents, you will ultimately achieve your objectives and reach your destination, provided you persist and distance yourself from negative influences. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

From a human perspective, one individual is deemed innocent and not guilty.  One serves as a positive role model, exhibiting kindness, love for humanity, philanthropy, generosity, tenderheartedness, friendliness, charity, and compassion.  One consistently engages in beneficial and constructive activities, maintains a relaxed demeanor, and demonstrates numerous other admirable qualities.  Consequently, society typically holds one in high esteem.  People generally speak favorably about one,  regardless of whether one is present or not. Externally, one may appear virtuous, but internally, one may be grappling with darker impulses and actions that are unknown to others, potentially leading to severe consequences. From a biblical perspective, everything hidden or secret will ultimately be revealed and made known to all, as stated in Luke 8:17 and corroborated by Mark 4:22.  Just as a potter has intimate knowledge of the pot they created, God, the Creator of all ...

Everything in life unfolds in a sequential manner.  For that reason, refrain from rushing, because doing so may lead to unfavorable consequences.  Avoid allowing external pressures to dictate your actions, as this may culminate in regret in the days to come. In addition, whatever you are doing today, always bear in mind that the repercussions will still fall on you,  whether you are doing the right things or not, because there are consequences for every action in life. Furthermore, when it is your time or your turn, nothing will hinder or divert you from realizing your destiny.  All you need to be doing now is to continue working towards your destiny instead of taking counterproductive steps. However, if you ultimately evade the repercussions of your malevolent actions here on the surface of the earth, they will nonetheless affect your progeny.  Who constitutes your progeny?  Well, they comprise your children, children's children, and great-grandchildren. R...

You are unique and must choose your own path.  Refrain from following others' routes, as this can lead to confusion.  The rationale behind this is that only the correct pathway leads to the desired destination.  Your individual path is the most suitable for you.  Consequently, it is essential to learn to make choices and follow your own direction. At an early age, physical attractiveness holds little significance.  The fact that others indulge in extravagant spending does not justify similar behaviour from you,  as mimicking their actions may lead to exceeding reasonable boundaries. Your approach isn't theirs.  Therefore, adopting their strategy and neglecting your own would be an unproductive use of your time and potentially create problems due to the discomfort of being on a path not suited to you.  In addition,  The only path that will bring you comfort is your own.  Observe others to inform your future planning; emulate them to initi...

Personal growth commences when action is taken. An individual enrolled in a prestigious writing academy,  where they underwent significant training despite entering and graduating with an unpolished skillset,  acquiring new knowledge in the process. However, when he commenced writing and practicing independently upon graduating,  he then began to develop professionally.  He never once ceased writing.  Consequently, he writes daily.  What I want to emphasize is that continuous growth occurs when you persist in doing what you do. Do not limit yourself regardless of your status;  refrain from underestimating your capabilities.  It is entirely possible for you to accomplish great things and achieve what you think you cannot. You'd continue to illuminate your path and that of others when you persist in your endeavours.  Growth becomes apparent the moment you initiate action and decline to relinquish your efforts.  Surrendering is not a viable...

The days are forthcoming when tears of joy will flow down your cheeks owing to the fulfillment of your current desires, which have yet to materialize.  You will experience happiness and gratitude for the unattainability of these desires.  You will be thankful that you do not acquire what you presently covet with such vigor in the forthcoming days. What is going to happen tomorrow is far beyond human beings' perspective and imagination.  Therefore, whatever happens today, let us proceed, remain optimistic and be content for the sake of tomorrow. Whenever your expectations are met, express gratitude and if they are not, cultivate satisfaction and thankfulness.  There are certain things that should not be pursued at all costs.  Learn to appreciate and be content with what you already have. Bear in mind that not everything you strive diligently for will be attained immediately. Therefore, remain prepared. Stay focused, persistent and confident as you continue to str...

At times, remaining peaceful, calm and being patient does shed light on what appears to be obfuscated - that which lacks clarity and is completely confusing. If you are ridiculed and rebuffed, it is prudent to remain silent and let go.  Those who mock and scorn you today may ultimately return to solicit your assistance.  Peruse the following anecdote and glean a valuable lesson.  Once upon a time, there was a hawk that the King of the kingdom would dispatch to procure prey for sustenance. The King dispatched the hawk to hunt for prey one day, and it flew to a location where it spotted a hen with numerous chicks by her side.  The hawk executed a series of maneuvers to facilitate the success of its mission.  When a window of opportunity presented itself, the hawk swiftly descended and seized one of the chicks.  The hen, upon hearing her baby's cry, rapidly turned around and endeavoured to retrieve her offspring, but her efforts ultimately proved futile. Upon ...

What goes around comes around.  You are aware that your actions are misguided and yet you take pleasure in them.  Remember that everything with a beginning also has an end here - beneath the earth's surface. There are consequences for every action in life.  Whatever you are doing today, always remember the latter end. Your existence should not be a liability to others. Live a life characterized by affection.  Live a life of significance.  Allow others to derive inspiration from you; inspiration that will continue to illuminate their lives.  Present yourself as a person of interest, thereby enabling others to perceive value in you. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.