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Educate others with humility.

A professional ought to educate those who are under the development of knowledge with humility and honesty, though he or she is an expert; he or she must stay meek despite the fact that he or she is an intelligent person.  The fact that someone is clever does not mean he or she should not be humble and submissive, because intelligence is a gift that can be taken away by the Giver if the person refuses to humble him or herself and instead continues to brag about his or her accomplishments. The fact that you are a professional does not imply that you should disrespect your elders.  Boasting about your professional status can unexpectedly lead to a novice-like demeanor.  Indeed, the act of boasting can inconspicuously strip away the pretenses of your boasts.  The Scriptures also emphasize in Matthew Chapter Twenty-three Verse Twelve that those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks -...

What have you achieved today?

Not only students should reflect on their daily accomplishments by asking, “What have we achieved today?”  As lifelong learners, we acquire new knowledge every day.  Each day presents an opportunity to learn something new, prompting us to ask ourselves, “What have I achieved today?”  Learning is a universal pursuit that extends beyond the student population; it is essential for everyone.  It is worth noting that we can only impart knowledge that we possess, not what we lack.  Similarly, we can only share what we have, not what we do not have.  Let us strive to dedicate ourselves to continuous learning, ensuring that we expand our existing knowledge base every day. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

Mistakes may be made when attempting something for the first time.

When you think, reflect and reassess before taking action, you will undoubtedly prevent yourself from committing any mistakes that may have future repercussions.  Nobody truly enjoys making mistakes, yet we inevitably gain valuable insights from them.  Mistakes can be minor or major; while diverse, they provide opportunities for growth. However, when you inadvertently make any, it's part of adding more knowledge because whenever you want to engage in such a thing the next time,  you'd probably know the way you're going to do it in the way that will bring good results rather than making the same mistake. People often say, “Only a fool learns from his or her own mistakes.”  While this may seem counterintuitive, rest assured, the following tips will provide guidance.  When someone commits a misconduct of which you are unaware, how can you learn from it?  How can you prevent yourself from making a similar mistake? On the other hand, when someone commits a mista...

Be cautious!

Let's exercise caution in our responses to elderly individuals.  You must be mindful of how your words are perceived by those who are older.  Sometimes, the intended meaning behind your words to elderly individuals might be misconstrued as they ponder over your response. They may assume you are mockery of them, potentially prompting them to contemplate retaliation,  unaware that they are misinterpreting the situation.  At times, it is essential to carefully consider your thoughts before reacting to individuals of advanced age.  Caution is advised. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

One good turn deserves another.

One good turn deserves another.  When people assist you in achieving your goal or in any way, acknowledge and express appreciation for their efforts, and let them know how much you value and cherish them. Always express your gratitude to your helpers. Whenever you do so, it fosters positive sentiments and delightful bliss from within.  Expressing your gratitude will consistently encourage them to provide further assistance, rather than perceiving you as unappreciative. Do not underestimate others when you have already reached the top; you ought not to deprecate others when you have attained your desires.  Instead, assist them to fulfill their objectives as well. Exercise restraint when interacting with others, regardless of their positions and circumstances.  Demonstrating kindness towards them consistently will inevitably foster a joyous and cheerful demeanor. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and c...

Be humble and acquire more knowledge, instead of boasting of the limited knowledge you possess.

Some individuals consistently seek to justify their actions, even when they are mistaken.  You don't need to argue with those correcting you.  Acknowledge your mistakes, pay attention and allow them to correct you.  By doing so, you'll acquire more new knowledge. Sometimes, as an adept that you are, you ought to position yourself as an amateur in order to acquire more knowledge.  Experts do not argue but rather make peace so that they may add to their understanding; they do not argue but instead keep silent in order to further illuminate their insights. Instead of boasting of the limited knowledge you possess, remain humble and pursue additional knowledge to ensure you are thoroughly educated on various new topics. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great mind...

Be understandable.

Be understandable.  The fact that someone assists you today does not necessarily mean that the fellow will be able to help you tomorrow. It is essential to be reasonable.  Sometimes, conflicts arise among individuals simply because the person who provided assistance yesterday is unable to do so today. It may appear that the person is unwilling to help the one seeking assistance, but it is crucial to be reasonable and understanding, as one may be unaware of the current circumstances the person is facing. A man received support from an individual, but the circumstances surrounding their meeting remained unknown to others.  As a result, when another day arrived, the man sought means to reestablish contact with the individual to obtain further assistance.  Shortly thereafter, an idea occurred to him regarding how he would facilitate another meeting with the individual. He approached the gentleman with confidence.  After the formalities, the man explained his purpose...

Be the peacemaker.

Whenever there’s a quarrel, the reason peace reigns is due to effective management.  Whether you are the guilty party or the innocent one, it is essential to conduct yourself in a manner that fosters peace, thereby allowing peace to prevail. Conduct yourself in an intelligent and rational manner whenever a quarrel arises between you and someone else. As an esteemed individual, it is essential to conduct yourself in a manner that garners respect and admiration.  Disputes will persist when you continue to engage in arguments with your opponent.  Releasing your grip on the argument will usher in peace.  When your opponent observes that you are no longer countering their assertions, he or she will likely become calm. Do you really know what will make him or her calm?  As he or she continues with the argument and sees that you're not responding, such an individual would likely recall the quote that says  "Silence is the best reply to a fool."  However, you'...

Play your leadership role well.

As someone familiar with the routes (as a leader), it is your responsibility to pave the way and facilitate a smoother journey for those who follow. If you make a mistake, it does not mean you should stand by and watch others repeat the same error.  Rather, others should learn from your mistakes. Since no one has all the answers,  and you are still navigating your own path, it is essential to set a good example for those behind you, thereby earning the favour of those ahead. You are navigating a challenge and not only persevering to attain success,  but also doing so for the benefit of those looking up to you and the future generations.  Your current actions will inspire them to persist in their own pursuits until they achieve their objectives.  By refusing to quit, you will serve as an exemplary role model for those looking up to you and the forthcoming generations. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and ...

Refrain from permitting fear to dominate your actions.

Whatever you aspire to achieve in life, it is possible to accomplish it flawlessly and excel if you refrain from allowing fear to gain the upper hand, even if the task exceeds your perceived capabilities.  How can you overcome the things that intimidate you the most when you have no desire to confront them?  How can you emerge victorious over the things that intimidate you the most when you have no intention of engaging with them?  Refrain from permitting fear to dominate your actions. There are certain factors that must be eliminated from the outset;  there are also certain elements that should be controlled from the beginning before they spiral out of control.  If you are someone who consistently strives to provide for your family, it is essential to exercise sensibility and rationality.  In a particular community, there lived a poor man alongside his neighbours.  This individual faced numerous challenges prior to his demise, enduring significant har...

Stay on the right path.

Do not deviate from the right path.  Many individuals have ceased to engage in productive activities and instead squander their time on frivolous pursuits.  For some, watching videos has become an integral part of their daily routine, to the extent that a day cannot pass without this activity.  The most striking aspect is that they devote an inordinate amount of time to watching videos, rendering 24 hours insufficient for this purpose.  Be prudent.  The writer's intent is not sarcastic, as there is no inherent issue with watching videos;  however, numerous individuals have transformed this activity into a daily imperative, thereby jeopardizing their careers.  Why is it detrimental to their careers?  Because of the excessive time allocation, which is misdirected.  There are specific times when one ought to refrain from watching videos and instead focus on priorities. Have you forgotten that you possess a profound passion?  You were given ...

Why do individuals engage in detrimental behaviour to manipulate and persuade others? 

Some individuals usually behave in a negative manner.  Their actions are against the law. When I say "Individuals," I mean Human beings. Why do individuals engage in detrimental behaviour to manipulate and persuade others?  Why do they seek the attention of those focused on their goals?  It would be beneficial for such individuals to reassess their actions and begin making positive plans for their future. As an individual with a purpose to fulfill, regardless of the challenges life presents, you will ultimately achieve your objectives and reach your destination, provided you persist and distance yourself from negative influences. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

The decision is yours whether to choose the narrow path that leads to eternal life or the broad path that leads to eternal damnation.

From a human perspective, one individual is deemed innocent and not guilty.  One serves as a positive role model, exhibiting kindness, love for humanity, philanthropy, generosity, tenderheartedness, friendliness, charity, and compassion.  One consistently engages in beneficial and constructive activities, maintains a relaxed demeanor, and demonstrates numerous other admirable qualities.  Consequently, society typically holds one in high esteem.  People generally speak favorably about one,  regardless of whether one is present or not. Externally, one may appear virtuous, but internally, one may be grappling with darker impulses and actions that are unknown to others, potentially leading to severe consequences. From a biblical perspective, everything hidden or secret will ultimately be revealed and made known to all, as stated in Luke 8:17 and corroborated by Mark 4:22.  Just as a potter has intimate knowledge of the pot they created, God, the Creator of all ...

Avoid allowing external pressures to dictate your actions.

Everything in life unfolds in a sequential manner.  For that reason, refrain from rushing, because doing so may lead to unfavorable consequences.  Avoid allowing external pressures to dictate your actions, as this may culminate in regret in the days to come. In addition, whatever you are doing today, always bear in mind that the repercussions will still fall on you,  whether you are doing the right things or not, because there are consequences for every action in life. Furthermore, when it is your time or your turn, nothing will hinder or divert you from realizing your destiny.  All you need to be doing now is to continue working towards your destiny instead of taking counterproductive steps. However, if you ultimately evade the repercussions of your malevolent actions here on the surface of the earth, they will nonetheless affect your progeny.  Who constitutes your progeny?  Well, they comprise your children, children's children, and great-grandchildren. R...

Refrain from following others' routes, as this can lead to confusion. 

You are unique and must choose your own path.  Refrain from following others' routes, as this can lead to confusion.  The rationale behind this is that only the correct pathway leads to the desired destination.  Your individual path is the most suitable for you.  Consequently, it is essential to learn to make choices and follow your own direction. At an early age, physical attractiveness holds little significance.  The fact that others indulge in extravagant spending does not justify similar behaviour from you,  as mimicking their actions may lead to exceeding reasonable boundaries. Your approach isn't theirs.  Therefore, adopting their strategy and neglecting your own would be an unproductive use of your time and potentially create problems due to the discomfort of being on a path not suited to you.  In addition,  The only path that will bring you comfort is your own.  Observe others to inform your future planning; emulate them to initi...

Action births clarity. Clarity births change (growth) Yep! The more you know, the more you grow.

Personal growth commences when action is taken. An individual enrolled in a prestigious writing academy,  where they underwent significant training despite entering and graduating with an unpolished skillset,  acquiring new knowledge in the process. However, when he commenced writing and practicing independently upon graduating,  he then began to develop professionally.  He never once ceased writing.  Consequently, he writes daily.  What I want to emphasize is that continuous growth occurs when you persist in doing what you do. Do not limit yourself regardless of your status;  refrain from underestimating your capabilities.  It is entirely possible for you to accomplish great things and achieve what you think you cannot. You'd continue to illuminate your path and that of others when you persist in your endeavours.  Growth becomes apparent the moment you initiate action and decline to relinquish your efforts.  Surrendering is not a viable...

The days are forthcoming when tears of joy will flow down your cheeks.

The days are forthcoming when tears of joy will flow down your cheeks owing to the fulfillment of your current desires, which have yet to materialize.  You will experience happiness and gratitude for the unattainability of these desires.  You will be thankful that you do not acquire what you presently covet with such vigor in the forthcoming days. What is going to happen tomorrow is far beyond human beings' perspective and imagination.  Therefore, whatever happens today, let us proceed, remain optimistic and be content for the sake of tomorrow. Whenever your expectations are met, express gratitude and if they are not, cultivate satisfaction and thankfulness.  There are certain things that should not be pursued at all costs.  Learn to appreciate and be content with what you already have. Bear in mind that not everything you strive diligently for will be attained immediately. Therefore, remain prepared. Stay focused, persistent and confident as you continue to str...

At times, remaining peaceful, calm and being patient does shed light on what appears to be obfuscated.

At times, remaining peaceful, calm and being patient does shed light on what appears to be obfuscated - that which lacks clarity and is completely confusing. If you are ridiculed and rebuffed, it is prudent to remain silent and let go.  Those who mock and scorn you today may ultimately return to solicit your assistance.  Peruse the following anecdote and glean a valuable lesson.  Once upon a time, there was a hawk that the King of the kingdom would dispatch to procure prey for sustenance. The King dispatched the hawk to hunt for prey one day, and it flew to a location where it spotted a hen with numerous chicks by her side.  The hawk executed a series of maneuvers to facilitate the success of its mission.  When a window of opportunity presented itself, the hawk swiftly descended and seized one of the chicks.  The hen, upon hearing her baby's cry, rapidly turned around and endeavoured to retrieve her offspring, but her efforts ultimately proved futile. Upon ...

What goes around comes around.

What goes around comes around.  You are aware that your actions are misguided and yet you take pleasure in them.  Remember that everything with a beginning also has an end here - beneath the earth's surface. There are consequences for every action in life.  Whatever you are doing today, always remember the latter end. Your existence should not be a liability to others. Live a life characterized by affection.  Live a life of significance.  Allow others to derive inspiration from you; inspiration that will continue to illuminate their lives.  Present yourself as a person of interest, thereby enabling others to perceive value in you. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

You become an expert in your endeavours with consistency and perseverance.

It is preferable to undertake a task independently and risk failure, rather than emulating someone else and achieving success.  You should refrain from frantically searching for someone to replicate.  Instead, take personal responsibility for your actions.  If you fail in your endeavours, you will garner valuable insights and acquire knowledge on how to improve your approach in the future.  The experiences gleaned from your failures will remain indelible, unless you choose to disregard them. In addition, imitating someone else's actions does not guarantee that you will learn from the experience.  A prudent individual takes initiative and performs tasks independently, whereas someone lacking wisdom rushes around seeking guidance from others. However, it is beneficial to learn from others. In fact, we consistently learn from one another in various ways, but it is not necessary to replicate the exact same actions.  You possess your own inherent potential. Deve...

Don’t underestimate the value of every individual around you.

Do not underestimate the value of every individual around you.  Those who confer crowns upon monarchs may not resemble kings or ascend to kingship themselves,  but through them, you may attain the crown. Never disparage anyone. Wherever you find yourself, do not disdain anyone.  You are unaware of what may transpire tomorrow.  For that reason, always display kindness and affection towards those around you, regardless of your location. Promotion comes in various forms.  And for you to advance to the next level, you must not fail the tests that come your way,  because those who are willing to assist you to advance to another higher level can disguise themselves as helpless individuals. They may request your assistance or ask you to undertake a task of significance to them,  and if you fail to comply, it may be challenging for them to provide support in return.  They would want to ascertain your genuine interest in advancing, and the purpose of the a...

Never contemplate relinquishing.

Never consider surrendering!  Never contemplate relinquishing! If you don't experience anything, you will have nothing to impart to others in the coming days.  Everybody passes through different kinds of challenges and experiences different kinds of things.  People teach through what they've experienced. The next generations will learn from your mistakes because as an individual who consistently demonstrates a willingness to enlighten and counsel others,  you will always be enthusiastic to educate them through your mistakes and experiences, both past and present. You become a role model to them inasmuch as you disregard the notion of quitting. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

Learn to eliminate negative Influences.

Learn to eliminate negative influences.  A customer of mine patronized my business years ago and after we exchanged pleasantries, I took the action of satisfying her request.  After a while, she wanted to call her mother because it was her mother who sent her.  When she wanted to call her mother, she asked me to do her a favour, that when she calls her mother,  I would help her by misrepresenting the amount that I would be deducting as my interest to be one thousand and five hundred naira,  Instead of one thousand naira. Upon hearing this, I explicitly told her that I couldn't engage in such behaviour. However, she urged me to, but I declined to do her such a favour. As a matter of fact, this is not a favour. I informed her that if that was what she wanted to do, she shouldn't contact her mother, because if she did, I wouldn't engage in such a falsehood.  After some time, she agreed to do the right thing.  After all, everything went right.  Everyt...

Whenever you’re opportune to carry out a task, perform it differently with perseverance so as to secure your position within the particular working place.

There is an uneducated man who is earning substantial income, surpassing that of some well-educated colleagues within a particular company.  This man achieved his current status due to his diligence and persistence in his dealings within the company. Furthermore, the uneducated man neither steals nor engages in any other negative behaviours.  In the company, whenever they apprehend someone who engages in stealing, they immediately terminate the individual's employment.  Therefore, whatever tasks they assign to him, he always completes them promptly with diligence. The company is one of the companies that both the educated and uneducated can work in. So, do not be surprised at how this uneducated man is coping with his tasks in the company, you simply need to possess any skill. As a result, the Chief Executive Officer of the company and many other high-ranking members of staff began scrutinizing him until they discovered that he was indeed a man they would be willing to wo...

A small thing that you disregard today can potentially transform your entire life.

I visited a large retail establishment to purchase a specific item. The store was extensive, offering a wide variety of products.  After exchanging greetings with the shopkeeper, I inquired about the item I sought, and he informed me that it was not in stock. With the vast array of items and the sheer size of the shop, I was unable to procure the single item I intended to purchase. Why am I sharing this? I simply wish to encourage you against underestimating the significance of seemingly insignificant things.  A small thing that you disregard today can potentially transform your entire life. A seemingly insignificant aspect today can become the catalyst for your promotion to a higher position that you previously thought unattainable tomorrow. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening ins...

Having a brighter future is undoubtedly the ultimate goal of everyone's life. 

You are a young individual who is aware of your destination, and as someone who is aware of their destination,  they would also be aware of their current location, and simultaneously, they would be aware of their intended destination. Having a brighter future is undoubtedly the ultimate goal of everyone's life.  As a matter of fact, an individual who aspires to a brighter future must always be prepared to confront difficulties and mistakes.  Making mistakes is an integral part of succeeding in life, because you ought to transform those mistakes into stepping stones to achieve your success. When you persevere through challenging circumstances, you will inevitably be elevated to a higher position, as adversity is akin to a testing period.  Upon successfully navigating a trial, advancement is assured. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a...

Water the right tree.

What does it mean to water the wrong tree?  It signifies misdirecting effort towards something that will yield no benefits when it matures;  it implies wasting time on futile endeavours; it means labouring for someone else to reap the benefits;  it means cultivating for another person to harvest. In addition, when you commence watering the wrong tree, it would be akin to executing the correct action, particularly when timed appropriately.  This phenomenon is referred to as 'performing the incorrect action at the optimal time.'  What are the benefits of performing the incorrect action at the optimal time?  Such an individual is merely squandering his or her time while simultaneously jeopardizing his or her future. Several individuals today are engaging in misguided endeavours, mistakenly believing they are doing the right things.  Such persons ought to conduct a self-examination, identify their strengths, and initiate activities that will yield benefits...

Always strive to support those who are struggling. 

Always strive to support those who are struggling.  By doing so, you empower them to exert greater effort in their endeavors.  Once they recognize that you consistently offer support despite their setbacks, they will be motivated to persevere, knowing that you will provide even greater encouragement when they ultimately achieve their goals. In addition, ridiculing and disparaging them would only serve to undermine their resolve, and when such occurs, they will be unable to persist, let alone exert additional effort.  Consequently, it is essential to foster an environment that encourages and supports them, thereby enabling them to diligently continue pursuing their endeavors. Meanwhile, it's not only monetary gain or physical possessions that can bring people happiness; not only material things can evoke joy.  Your support and guidance can go a long way in putting smiles on people's faces, despite the challenges they're facing in life.  Try to provide backing for...

To become an expert, you require the guidance of experts.

To become an expert, you require the guidance of experts. If you genuinely aspire to attain expertise, it is essential to surround yourself with individuals who will positively impact your life.  You cannot accomplish this alone; even if you attempt to, you will inevitably reach a point where you will necessitate the assistance of professionals.  Consequently, do not hesitate to associate with exceptionally capable individuals who can aid you in becoming a superior version of yourself. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition and concoction of simple words to lighten lives. I put pen to paper to convey a heartfelt message, at the same time, colossal and enlightening insight to great minds.

It is essential to reflect on your past and identify such actions, then seek solutions.

What have you done? Your past actions could be the source of your current suffering.  It is possible that your pain is a consequence of your previous deeds.  That severe pain might be a direct result of your past engagements.  Everyone has his unique problems, and yours may be distinct from others due to your past actions.  At the time, you may have derived enjoyment from those actions, which could have led you to continue, without considering the potential repercussions.  Nevertheless, it is essential to examine your past actions to identify the root cause of your current predicament. In addition, conduct an examination of your past actions, whether intentional or unintentional.  Conduct thorough research and make necessary amendments before it becomes too late.  Upon completion, you can expect to receive your breakthrough.  Avoid adopting a mindset that perceives your situation as normal.  Instead, you should conduct research to identify an...

Regardless of your profession, continue to fulfill your obligations, because prayers for an indolent individual are futile; the prayer cannot be answered.

Five athletes positioned themselves to run a race, and upon hearing the whistle, they all commenced running with maximum exertion, except for one athlete who adopted a slower pace, consequently falling behind. He was aware that his colleagues, who were expending their energy rapidly, would soon become fatigued. He anticipated that once they became exhausted, he would seize the opportunity to accelerate his pace, thereby gaining an advantage. This strategy would enable him to overtake his competitors and ultimately emerge as the champion. However, after some time, the four athletes running with all their strength were extremely exhausted and started running slowly because they had depleted their energies. Therefore, the one that was running slowly, whom they all left behind when the race began, then started running faster with all his strength and began to overtake them one after the other ‘till he became the one they all were seeing in the front. A few minutes later, he crossed the fin...

It can be learned when you dedicate yourself to it and maintain focus.

There are certain concepts that are not inherently difficult to learn and understand, but the reality is that individuals often resist starting from the basics and instead seek to delve into advanced topics. However, acquiring knowledge in a linear fashion, from A to Z, facilitates a more comprehensive understanding. Even if one attempts to bypass foundational knowledge, they will inevitably reach a point where a thorough understanding of the basics is required. Therefore, if such a situation arises, what course of action would you take: return to learning the fundamental principles that were initially neglected? Acquiring knowledge from the outset is the foundation of the wisdom you will utilize when tackling complex challenges. Many students struggle to grasp certain courses in higher education institutions today. If you are committed to learning and understanding, it is essential to start from the beginning. Without a clear comprehension of the origin of a concept, how can you disce...

Let’s strive to be kind. Iron sharpens iron.

What does it mean to help others come out of their shells?  What does it mean to help others break free from their constraints?  To begin with, it means providing the assistance you are capable of to help them overcome their challenges.  It means offering the support within your capability to enable them to triumph over their difficulties.  You ought not to remain indifferent or unresponsive while others are facing difficulties; rather, you must be proactive and energetic enough to assist them when the problems and dilemmas they are facing are becoming increasingly overwhelming. In addition, when someone in your vicinity or someone you are familiar with is facing a situation that renders them unable to communicate with you or others, It is essential that you muster the courage to reach out to them to ascertain the reason behind their inactivity, even if your relationship with that individual is not particularly close.  Brothers and sisters, it is your responsibi...

Some individuals do not want to see others succeed…

There are individuals in certain positions who, initially, may offer support;  however, the moment they realize that your impending actions will yield greater results than theirs , they will withdraw their assistance.  This shift occurs because they recognize that your success will surpass theirs. Although they may have provided support previously,  their willingness to help will cease once they perceive that your endeavors will elevate you to a more prominent position.  Consequently, you may find yourself wondering why their support has dissipated, unaware of the underlying reason. However, do not be surprised when such situations arise,  because it is uncommon to find individuals in positions of power willing to support others in surpassing their own status.  In fact, there are certain individuals who do not wish to see others achieve success,   instead desiring exclusive success for themselves;  they strive solely for their own continued succes...

You should surround yourself with successful individuals to gain insight into and unlock the secrets of success.

Don't simply sit idly by. There are certain strategies you must know and learn from those who consistently achieve success. You should surround yourself with successful individuals to gain insight into and unlock the secrets of success. By associating closely with them, you will acquire the key to unlocking the door to your own success. Remember, no one attains success only to willingly revert to a life of deficiency. Sometimes, you may be wondering how someone is achieving success, and if you do not inquire, you will not receive an answer. Extricate yourself from confusion and approach the individual, who will likely elucidate their methods and strategies for achieving success in a significant manner. However, some individuals are engaging in certain business ventures to conceal their true activities. The things they are doing secretly are extremely unethical. Therefore, before you meet someone to clarify the secret to their success or how they are achieving it, ensure you scrutin...

Your backing and guidance can have a profound impact, bringing joy and fulfillment to those navigating life’s challenges.

It is essential to consistently offer support to those who are struggling.  By doing so, you reinforce their determination to invest more effort in their endeavours.  When individuals recognize that you consistently provide encouragement despite their setbacks,  they will be motivated to persevere, anticipating that you will offer even greater support when they achieve their objectives.  Moreover, ridiculing or belittling them would only serve to undermine their resolve,  rendering them unable to continue, let alone muster the motivation to try harder.  Consequently, it is crucial to adopt an encouraging approach, enabling them to persist in their pursuits with diligence.  Furthermore, by offering support and encouragement,  individuals will be empowered to reevaluate their approach and make necessary adjustments without feeling ashamed or inadequate.  Your backing and guidance can have a profound impact, bringing joy and fulfillment to those...

Initiating efforts toward advancement may not yield immediate excellence, but diligent persistence assures achievement. 

You aspire to change yet remain static; how then can transformation occur?  To undergo transformation while remaining stagnant is improbable.  Change necessitates movement and action.  Change is impossible without movement or action.  Taking action facilitates progress, enabling you to transition to a higher plane. Yep! Taking proactive steps facilitates progress and growth. For instance, you cannot reach your destination the moment you commence movement,  but the fact that you are moving provides assurance that you will ultimately reach your destination. In addition, when you initiate efforts towards advancing to a higher position,  it is possible that your performance may not be the absolute best or most exceptional; however,  the fact that you are diligently working towards your objective ensures that you will ultimately achieve your desired outcome. Vigorous effort in your endeavours guarantees advancement to a superior level.  Consistency in ...

Taking proactive steps fosters progress.

You aspire to change yet remain static; how then can transformation occur?  To undergo transformation while remaining stagnant is improbable.  Change necessitates movement and action.  Change is impossible without movement or action.  Taking action facilitates progress, enabling you to transition to a higher plane. Yep! Taking proactive steps facilitates progress and growth. For instance, you cannot reach your destination the moment you commence movement,  but the fact that you are moving provides assurance that you will ultimately reach your destination. In addition, when you initiate efforts towards advancing to a higher position,  it is possible that your performance may not be the absolute best or most exceptional; however,  the fact that you are diligently working towards your objective ensures that you will ultimately achieve your desired outcome. Vigorous effort in your endeavours guarantees advancement to a superior level.  Consistency in ...

If you fail to establish a solid foundation for future now, it may become increasingly challenging to initiate in the future.

Diligent work is the antidote to poverty. When you have no external support, you must rely on yourself, working assiduously to achieve your goals. In the absence of external assistance, you must continue to work tirelessly to meet your needs. An individual with no external support must utilize his cognitive abilities judiciously; such a person is often characterized by his diligent work ethic, persisting while others repose. Many individuals attend prestigious institutions solely to attain academic credentials, leveraging their affluent backgrounds and familial wealth. Conversely, some individuals lack access to such opportunities. Moreover, certain individuals may not physically attend classes yet still manage to achieve academic success. This highlights the significant impact of financial resources. As an individual in a specific field, it is essential to maintain focus on your academic pursuits, exerting considerable effort to attain your objectives, particularly considering your pe...

Experiencing jealousy is a normal emotion, but taking something precious and valuable away from an individual solely due to jealousy is indeed wickedness.

Awero, Adebimpe, and Ewalola were best friends during their university days.  Awero came from a well-structured home with parents who nurtured and trained her in every aspect.  Conversely, Ewalola and Adebimpe's upbringing was different.  They met at the university, studying the same course, and became inseparable friends.  As their friendship grew, they decided to reside in the same hostel room.  They scheduled chores among themselves, ensuring a smooth living arrangement.  After the first semester of their first year, Ewalola and Adebimpe revealed their true selves.  They would often attend parties, while Awero preferred to stay at home.  Initially, they thought Awero was just taking time to adjust to the new environment, but as time passed, they realized she genuinely disliked partying.  During a conversation, Awero disclosed that she wasn't interested in attending parties, especially at night.  Unbeknownst to Awero, Ewalola and Adebi...

With persistence and diligence, it is possible to create remarkable things, whether through your innate talents or acquired knowledge. 

There are numerous exceptional individuals today who have devoted considerable thought to identifying opportunities that would benefit both themselves and society at large.  They have developed strategic plans and worked diligently with unwavering determination to bring their visions to fruition.  Despite encountering numerous challenges and obstacles in their pursuit of achieving their objectives,  they have demonstrated remarkable resilience and perseverance, ultimately succeeding in their endeavors. As a result, many individuals are now reaping the benefits of their hard work and dedication, leveraging their achievements for various purposes.  Furthermore, it is essential to recognize that you possess inherent potential that can be harnessed to create something truly remarkable, bringing benefits to both yourself and the global community.  Upon discovering your passion and source of happiness, it is crucial to develop a strategic plan, leveraging your talents...

Unleash your potential ~MD_inks

Some individuals possess innate talents, yet they remain unaware of their gifts.  For others, inspiration strikes, prompting them to write,  but when they sit down with pen and paper, they find themselves uncertain about what to express.  Nothing seems to flow once they have their writing materials at hand. To bring your dreams to fruition, it is essential to be aware of certain strategies.  Taking the initial steps towards your aspirations is crucial before they can become a reality.  Having the urge to write is one thing, but possessing the aptitude for writing is quite another.  If you consistently feel the desire to write but lack ideas, you will find yourself unable to make progress.  You will merely end up fidgeting with your pen on paper or scrolling aimlessly through your documents. Fulfilling your destiny begins when you take deliberate actions.  Merely having a dream of becoming something or someone is not enough; you must take concrete ...

What goes around comes around.

This is me in my late fifties.  When I was in my early thirties,  I was an exceptionally successful individual,  excelling in every endeavour I undertook.  During that period, I was blessed with an abundance of prosperity, both spiritually and materially.  My success was so profound that I became a role model for many,  with numerous people aspiring for their children to emulate my achievements.  Some even prayed to attain at least half of my wealth.  However, I had a friend who, despite his best efforts, struggled to make ends meet and provide for his family.  He would often approach me with tears in his eyes, seeking assistance,  and I, being the successful and compassionate person I was,  would provide him with substantial help, sometimes even exceeding his expectations. Our friendship was built on trust, and I had absolute confidence in him,  to the extent that I could entrust him with sensitive company documents and confid...

Be cautious and vigilant so as not to get caught simply because you decide to seize an opportunity.

Not all open doors are to be entered, because some are traps. Not all opportunities are to be grabbed. There are some antagonists of yours who are behind the door, and the moment you enter, anything can happen. The door gets shut after you have stepped inside. However, when such happens, there's nothing you can do except to surrender. Therefore, be careful and be vigilant. Unknowingly, you might not be the one they set the trap for, but in view of the fact that you don't want to lose any opportunity, you get yourself into it. May you not be ensnared. Moreover, you need scrupulosity and boldness as you navigate through life. You must be scrupulous, cautious and wise enough so as not to get yourself into a trap. As a matter of fact, scrupulosity and vigilance will help prevent you from getting entangled in traps. Be cautious not to get caught simply because you tend to seize an opportunity. Written by: Monday K. Oke #md_inks - the light of the world, who makes the composition an...

A phone is just a device; it doesn’t define your worth or status.

Nottingham Forest's billionaire owner Evangelos Marinakis still uses an iPhone 7 in 2025,  despite having the means to acquire the latest model, which many less fortunate individuals aspire to own.  Nevertheless, one's phone does not necessarily determine one’s wealth. Phones don't define wealth. In this country, many individuals, especially young ladies,  have made questionable choices to acquire expensive phones, like iPhones, often as a means to show off.  This desire to keep up appearances can lead people to prioritize material possessions over their values and well-being.  Some even lost their virginity in the process, which is highly unfortunate. It's concerning that some individuals might compromise their integrity or engage in unhealthy behaviour just to own the latest iPhone.  Please, do not misinterpret my stance, I am not suggesting that you should refrain from using an iPhone,  this content simply focuses on the types of individuals who eng...

Remember that there are repercussions for every action you take, as the secret will ultimately be revealed.

At one point, Digboluja's intuition was telling him that something was amiss, he stopped momentarily and discreetly looked around. However, he subsequently felt it was nothing and continued heading deeper into the forest, only to be ambushed by his enemies and strangled. Fortunately, he managed to survive. They left him in the forest and fled, pretending to be innocent. There were four perpetrators - Durogbagi, Abanikanda, Alabelewe, and Ajanaku. Digboluja was one of the five hunters in the village of Abule-Egba. After about an hour of lying on the ground, motionless, Digboluja started shaking his legs, while his enemies thought he was dead. You're surprised, right? Anyway, that's how it transpired. After all, he managed to stand up and escape to another village called Ijoko, where he decided to reside to avoid his enemies and Abule-Egba at large. The people of Abule-Egba mourned Digboluja's death, including the King, as they all assumed that a wild animal had killed hi...